Of crossing paths with someone. At the right time for both of you. The right place.
The right time in your life to be open to making room in it for a life partner.
When you’ve found that one in three billion man, married him then lost him.
I’m blessed that I’ve been that lucky. That happy. We both knew we were lucky.
We told each other so.
Sometimes I’d pinch myself that he was too good to be true. That no one is allowed to be that happy.
Maybe the universe noticed my doubt. My punishment for such an indulgent self-focus.
So what are the chances of crossing paths with another one in 3.5 billion man, at the right time for us both?
Would it be worth it? To trust. To start again. Only to potentially lose again?
How lucky can one girl be?
And how much love can one heart survive?
May 17, 2017 at 8:56 pm
Thank you for sharing your inner reflections. About me: I’ve not found my life partner yet tho I am given perspectives from others who have and have lost them to death or the ending of relationship or are in relationship with their love and no longer have the sparkle that once drove the connection. Who knows if I will ever find him. I continue to hold the hope. But maybe there are gifts in these umpteen years alone and with shorter-term-ends-up-not-the-one relationships.
And I believe the saying “better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all” is only true for some, not all. Sending love and light, Xxx
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May 17, 2017 at 10:14 pm
Thanks Gina. There are gifts on all sides for sure
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